My Actifit Report Card: January 22 2026

“We have made our generation ineffective”

It may be bitter to say, but the truth is that we Pakistanis are making our future generations ineffective and paralyzed
In the model of raising children in homes, the mother is the center of everything
And children grow up to be only “commanders” The mother should polish the child’s shoes, prepare the lunch box, cover the books, make the bed, and even bring a glass of water
So expecting independence and responsibility from this child is completely unreasonable.
Children get used to receiving everything immediately They do not learn to value anything,
Nor is there any desire or training in them to do anything themselves If the mother is busy serving the children at all times,
then those children can never become self-sufficient, courageous and practical citizens.
Then when these children grow up and become husbands, they expect the same from their wives that was placed on their mothers in childhood.
The wife is given the status of a "servant", not a life partner
The wife's emotions, feelings and fatigue are ignored, because she was taught throughout her life that a woman's job is only to serve a man
Thus a generational traditional slavery develops, in which a woman only gives and a man only takes.
This system is destroying not only the family but also society Instead of training the new generation in responsibility, self-confidence and self-reliance, we are teaching convenience, narcissism and inaction
How is reform possible
Parents should instill in children the habit of working on their own from a young age
Children should learn to fold their own clothes prepare their own lunch boxes make their own beds,ل and protect their own things
Similarly, husbands should be taught that real manhood is not to take service from their wife, but to share life with her.
Remember,
If we take away our children's abilities in the name of making things easier for them, tomorrow will be a day of regret.

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Height 172 cm		Weight 72 kg		Body Fat 50 %
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