Tips for Dealing with Stubborn Couples.

Having a stubborn boyfriend, it must feel bad for this because it will drain your energy, emotions and energy. After all, who wants to have a stubborn boyfriend? Of course not, everyone wants to have a good, friendly, understanding and loving partner.

But what if you already have a stubborn partner? Decided? No way, still baby! But if it is maintained, it will thin out your patience and of course your emotions will get out of control. Become confused,?

So that you are no longer confused about his nature, here are some surefire things that can help you deal with a stubborn partner.

Don't talk when he's emotional.
Talking to people who are in an emotional state won't solve anything, right? Whatever you are about to say or what you do, he will never be able to accept it well. For him, you will be considered as an attacker and that makes him will do anything to defend his fort.

So, you better wait until his emotions subside and he can think with a cool head. Only then can you talk to him.

Face it with tenderness and compassion.

Hard people certainly can't be treated harshly either. Because it will make your problems even more complicated which can lead to fights or even break up. Of course you don't want your relationship to end? Therefore you must treat him with the tenderness and affection that you have. Try to give him an understanding that stubbornness is not a good thing and can harm everyone. You can also occasionally be firm with him but not angry. Just say it gently.

In addition, give him more affectionate attention. That way, he will slowly melt too. Remember, stubborn people also have hearts. Like a stone, if watered continuously, one day the stone will soften. Likewise with him.

If he's talking, don't interrupt.

Stubborn people tend not to give in. Therefore, when he is talking in an emotional state, don't you ever dare to interrupt him. Let him finish his sentence, let out everything in his heart and mind.

Because the more you cut him off, the more he doesn't want to lose. So it's best to just let him finish his sentence. Later you will also understand what he means and know what to do.

It's time for you to talk, so make it clear what you mean.

Stubborn people tend to find it difficult to accept input or anything that is beyond their heads. So, when you're trying to convey what you mean to him, don't go round and round or contain implied meanings. Explain clearly, coherently, honestly and with logic that is easy to accept. For example, "I want you like this" you can replace with "I understand why you want you, I understand you don't want to be disturbed. But I'm worried baby, I don't want you to get hurt. You can go with them until the night, forget the time. I'm so worried, not calm because I don't know where you are. So, I'm not forbidding you to go."

Try every time you talk to him use language he can accept well without making him feel cornered or judged.

You have to be able to hold yourself back, don't try to fight it.

Of course, fire can't be fought with fire, right? It takes water to extinguish it. Well that also applies to you and him. When he shows his stubborn side, the best step you should take is to take a deep breath and reassure yourself that his stubbornness is only temporary. Don't try to fight back because your problem and he's not finished, it's just getting murkier. So the best thing to do is to try to restrain yourself by being a good listener, responding to every rant with a smile or saying "Yeah, I get it honey."

Try trying to win her heart.
The stubborn boyfriend will be soft if you can take his heart. Make him always trust you or provide comfort for him such as attention or entertainment when he is sad. Well, if he feels comfortable with you, you can share your complaints with him while you are in touch. Do not be afraid! Tell me if you don't like his stubbornness.

Trust me, over time he will realize his mistake and try to change it. But remember, change also takes a process.

Lots of patience.
Patience has no limits, you know! If you still like baper, annoyed, emotional stubbornly means that you have not become a patient person. Indeed, it is not easy to be patient. But if you and he are both stubborn, all of your problems will only get more complicated.

If you're really me love and love him, no matter how hard you are, you will always try to be patient and persevere. Remember, matching each other's hearts is not easy, if you plan to break up with him and look for new people who are better than him, that new person doesn't necessarily match and blend with you. Right?

So, try to be patient. Isn't God always with those who are patient? And every patience will surely bear sweet fruit.