What If You Cannot Handle That?
That guy hits you first, so you hit him. And you start fighting. So what if that guy does not hit you first? Maybe then you will strike and hit him. Before starting a fight, there is something that triggers you.
Even if that guy did not hit you, but said some bad things, you would hit him for that. There are situations where you might not handle yourself. You will respond to that because you cannot take it anymore.
We know that avoiding a fight is always better, still, we get involved in the fighting. You can identify what triggers you and as a result, you cannot take it anymore. When you deal with a situation, you cannot expect good behavior from bad guys.
Their behavior, attitude, and everything can act as a trigger. You know that you should not get involved in that fight, but you cannot handle it. Sometimes things can get out of control.
The way the attacker behaves and acts, you take that personally. If you do not take that personally, you can deal with the situation in a different way. The thing is, you cannot think clearly when you are being triggered and you are very angry.
Although you feel like you are powerful at the stage of anger, you are not. That's just a feeling, and it may do more harm than good. If you are able to stay calm, do what needed to be done, you can deal with the situation in a better way.
What do you think? Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section. Thank you so much for reading this post. Stay safe. Always be happy!
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What you said is 90% correct, when triggered to a fight, you get yourself exposed to danger.
Rushing into a fight without having total control of the situation leaves you with high risk of loosing.
Be rational. And taking action based on your ability and reality always helps. Once things get out of control, you may not predict what will happen because of that!
I really like your posts, another thing I like is your website, because I want to make one too.
Haven't you put any ads on it?
Thank you for visiting my blog. That's blog's backend is hive blockchain. What I post that is automatically published on hive.
And you have not tried to include advertisements on your website?
Nope
True. It's reckless reacting when triggered as it opens you up as you tend not be organized.
It is not the right way to handle a fight even though it's difficult in reality to remain calm when poked.
Well said. Thank you for your feedback!