How To Deal With Shoulder Grab

If someone does something, but he does not mean to hurt you, you should not hurt him. We are talking about self defense, and you need to understand the situation first. If that's a violent situation, you have to be aggressive and take that seriously.

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If that is not a violent situation, you do not like to hurt someone only because he does something like putting his hand on your shoulder. Use reasonable force to strike. If you want to get rid of someone, you can just push him and walk away from there.

It is a basic lesson. If someone puts his hands on your shoulder, you can move his hands and push him. That person will not get hurt. He will move away when you push him, and you can get out of there. Master Wong explained it very well. Let's watch this video.

Can you punch or kick the guy who puts his hand on your shoulder?

Yes, you can. But do you think that it is necessary to do that? If the guy puts his hand on your should and is about to punch you, you can attack him. It is based on the situation you are in.

If you are a police officer or security officer, and someone does that, you might need to take him out of there. In that case, you can grab his hand, turn, and hyperextend. Now if you apply pressure, it is going to be painful for the attacker. You can lock his hand and take him out of there.

Martial art is only for self defense. It is to stop the violence, not to create more. A good martial artist is a good person. He or she does not hurt any person without any reason. He or she knows it very well how the pain feels like.

So if you are a girl, a guy puts his hand on your shoulder, you can react based on the situation and his intention. Again, if that guy is your boyfriend or husband, you might not want to break his hand even you two had a fight yesterday.

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